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My refrain for the past few months have been “get me out of this hell.” Still waiting.



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I love how the Addams Family has ZERO slut-shaming. Like… honey you can dance naked and enslave someone with your womanly charms if you want to, I don’t fucking care, but so help me you’re going to get a college education first.


The Addamses are what every family should aspire to be like (you know; without the dismemberment and electric chairs as play time).  Honestly, have you ever seen more unconditionally loving and supportive parents than Gomez and Morticia?  And not just with the kids, but with each other.  I think what’s especially unique about them is how open they are with everything.  They don’t treat their children like children.  They treat them like they treat everyone else; direct, and to the point. 

It’s creepy how many good examples of parenting and romantic relationships there is in these characters, especially considering they are supposed to be the antithesis of the stereotypical American nuclear family.

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Jul 2

If I help enough enough people out of their pain, maybe that will help me out of my own.


There’s hope… There’s always a tiny ounce of hope.

My own 'Reasons to Stay Alive' list.


  1. Warm baths
  2. Leaves changing color in Autumn
  3. First snow fall of the year
  4. Swimming
  5. Bonfires
  6. Creativity with makeup
  7. The power of well written words
  8. Rediscovering music you once loved
  9. Memories triggered by objects/music/books/movies
  10. Falling asleep in someone’s arms
  11. Falling in love

We live in the hope…of truth and in the hope of light…To hope makes you so vulnerable..To hope is to be a child again. The world teaches us to put on a shell but to hope is to be like a snail between shells….

- Anne Lamott, as interviewed with Oprah (via fieldofadventure)